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I was standing near an ice lantern, lined up on the mid-range sled dog race paths, with teams roaming around in a beautiful combination of determination and joy. It is a fascinating sight. Dogs and mashers passing through the forest late at night focus on the trail in front. The audience gathered around the bonfire, ringing the bells and cheering the team as they slid.
But then I saw something normal.
We were cheering for the approaching team. The dog is barely visible from the rays of the masher headlamp. As they approached the crowd, the dogs left the trail and headed out into the crowd of spectators.
A powerful and enthusiastic husky, Lead Dog is trapped in something around him and takes the rest of his team with him. It happened so fast that the crowd had little time to respond. The audience jumped up and down, I braced for confusion.
But what happened next was the master class Self-regulation.
The masher standing firmly on the runner was not. panic. He didn’t scream. He did not convulse or scramble the sledges to fix the team. Instead, he called out in a gentle, steady voice.
“We need volunteers! Grab the lead dog harness!”
In the midst of swirling chaos, his voice was clear and direct. It was an immediate calming effect not only on dogs but also on crowds. A nearby volunteer responded instantly, moving forward and grabbing the lead dogs and gently leading the team on the right path. Within seconds the dog was back on track, there was an energy reset, and the masher was moving forward as if nothing had happened. The crowd returned to warming their hands around the bonfire as they waited for the next team to leave the woods.
It ended in an instant, but the experience stuck with me. What I witnessed wasn’t just a skill. It was self-regulation of behavior.
Self-regulation in its simplest form is the ability to manage emotions, thoughts and actions, especially when things move sideways. It’s calming down when adrenaline screams for action. Evaluation before responding is suspended. And it has the presence of the mind to make clear and intentional decisions when there is a high interest.
For mashers, this is not an option. On the trail, reducing control can have dangerous consequences, whether during a race or in the middle of a remote wilderness. A panicked masher can accidentally pass that energy to the dog, causing even more confusion. But the masher who remains configured helps everyone reset and get back on track with a calm send to the team.
When an unexpected event occurs, the amygdala in the brain becomes high gear, flooding the body with adrenaline, causing a combat and freezing response. This response is great when you are facing immediate physical dangers, but it is not very useful when you need to think clearly and make quick, strategic decisions.
The masher I witnessed that day had mastered the ability to override that initial surge by involving his prefrontal cortex. Executive Features Like decision makingimpulse control, and problem solving. Instead of responding emotionally, he responded accurately and regulated both his emotions and his actions.
It wasn’t just the masher’s calm that hit me the most. It was how quickly he moved from realizing the problem to implementing the solution. He wasted no excessive analysis or time allocated responsibility. He simply asked for help, addressed the issue and moved on.
What are these micromoments of self-regulation – decisions to be calm, clarity for help, ability to reset energy – what is the construction of? Resilience over time. Psychologists know that resilience is not constructed with epic gestures. It is built through countless small moments that have chosen to readjust instead of reactions.
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If you are a high achievement – whether you are leading a team, managing a household, or working ambitiously the goal– Self-regulation is your superpower. The ability to stay calm, assess situations and pivot effectively when things go off course is more than just a skill. It separates successful people from those who derailed.
Here’s how to strengthen your self-regulating muscles:
Watching his team regain control was not a reminder of what is possible on the trail, but a powerful analogy of life. Things get off course. Distractions will draw you in a direction you didn’t plan. But if you readjust and refocus while still configured, it always goes back smoothly.
So remember the next time your life is off course.