Perfect Valentine’s Day Date Recipe

What do dandruff, taxes, and Valentine’s Day have in common?

They are words that can make us nagged.

Let’s face it. Valentine’s Day often creates more pressure than passion. Whether you would like to welcome this opportunity as a reminder to create a way to connect And design a romantic and sexy night, or whatever you do, your lover will be hurt and disappointed, February 14th is still coming.

I have been betting for a long time on dropping the majority of you from your life and waking up in March. So let’s change that.

This video offers the perfect Valentine’s Day date recipes. The good news is that it’s easier than you think. All you need is 3 ingredients and sprinkles Imagination.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-qem7n_oc0

Challenge yourself to create romantic experiences based on a model of three keys to passion–Intimacy, thrill, sensuality – to learn that great couples develop over time.

Intimacy: Focus on romantic rather than mundane

Intimacy or marriage friendship It’s the first ingredient in your perfect date. It involves talking about your inner world and sharing your hopes, dreamand more.

I want you to have a conversation that reminds you of a story about when you fell in love. how? First of all, there are some things you shouldn’t do here. Don’t talk about children, leaking roofs, or other daily details of your relationship life. Instead, focus on topics that connect you and govern a sense of gratitude; Thanksand hope.

Ok, that’s easy, but it’s difficult to do. So please help. Every Friday is a date night for couples in my online couple Immersion program. And this is what I teach them.

Focus your conversations on both you, in the present, past, and future. Focus on the direct experience of this moment, the touch of your hands, the taste of chocolate mousse on your tongue, and what you’re feeling now and now. Next, talk about past adventures, romantic experiences, and happy memories such as your first date, honeymoon, and the birth of a child. Next, talk about what you want to commit to (probably your travel and relationship goals, Friday night night planning).

thrill: Recreate the excitement of falling in love

Remember your early date with your friends. Do you remember how fascinating they were? My first date with my now husband started with a simple omelette at the diner and ended after a 4 hours’ walk along the sea.

Well, it’s here. Many years later, my husband is still attractive. But, unless I remember that I’m fascinated by him here, now friendliness can lead to boredom Both inside and outside the bedroom. I want to invite you to recreate the sexual desires that came so easily when you are soaked in the biochemistry and novelty of your early relationship. I call this the heart of thrill.

How do you create a thrill on the perfect date? Choose to do something new and different. Use your imagination. Just like Kent and Susan, couples in my online couples program. They designed one of the most romantic, erotic and playful weekends they’ve heard in their condo during lockdown. If you want to get inspiration, watch the video and ask how he regained the thrill 32 years later. There are no excuses. A little imagination, a heart, and humoryou can make your lover feel like the most important person in the world.

Sensuality: You can’t make chocolate cake without chocolate

I define sensuality as the overall spectrum of erotic exploration. Sexuality And everything in between.

To be frank, Sensual spices are, by definition, a single ingredient that sets you Romantic Relationship Apart from all the other relationships in your life. You can share your intimacy with friends and family, create a thrill with your ski buddies or college girlfriends on spa holidays. But you’ll only get naked with your lover.

Therefore, make sure to include sensuality in your perfect Valentine’s Day date. Yes, I mean a plan to make love. The keyword for that advice is Plan. According to Sexuality Researcher Rosemary Basson, the majority of long-term couples start falling in love from a place of sexual neutrality. What does that mean? Simply put, if you’ve been together for a long time, it’s normal that there’s very little spontaneous sexual desire. That’s why it’s important to plan your passion rather than wait until you’re in the “mood.” So don’t exclude chocolate from your chocolate cake recipe. Make your erotic life a priority and make sure it’s an important element of your Valentine’s Day date and all dates this year and beyond.