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Imagine knocking on a bottle of ketchup. When you reach for the paper towel, you start wiping, and ketchup spreads, exacerbating the confusion. But here’s the key: it looks nasty, but you teeth I’ll progress. The trick is to shift your perception to recognize that each wipe brings you closer to cleaning it.
Starting something new in life often feels the same. Whether you learn new skills, pick up new habits, or work towards your goals, your first attempt can feel frustrated, confused, and even discouraged, like spreading ketchup!
Basic research in performance psychology, including Mindset by Carol Dweck and research into desirable difficulties by Robert Bjork, presents important principles: subjective Feeling In many cases, progress is far behind actual learning and skill development. As a result, early efforts often seem counterproductive, creating a persuasive fantasy of stagnation when important foundations are established. However, this frustrating disconnect does not require determination of the response.
As Dweck emphasizes Growth thinkingsee the set as part of the sustainability of learning fuel. You can make further use of this by performing a kind of “mindset judo.” Fantasy There is no progress Use that energy To the pivot. You can make a conscious choice believe In progress, we still can’t see positively Visualization Steps before proceeding in the background.
This reconstruction can be seen as troublesome or initially suited to resistance. When consistent, we find that believing in underlying progress becomes more natural and intuitive.
An easy way to start building this skill is to pause every day to tailor your surroundings and notice even the smallest positive changes, like the buds that appear in the first gentle warmth of spring. It looks small now, but still holds a blueprint for future growth. The same principle applies to seemingly invigorating chicken eggs. Every day, chicks form behind the shells and are hidden from sight until they eventually become hatched. In both cases, actual progress often occurs before you can see it.
This is where intentional mind training appears. Rather than simply noticing the buds or eggs, imagine its imminent flower or chick trying to hatch. Each small step may not produce immediate results, but it can cause subtle momentum that is easy to overlook if you don’t adjust it. Recognizing these early signs as emotions for true progress and their constructive energy can help strengthen our commitment to outcomes and turn invisible possibilities into concrete growth.
Robert Bjork, cognitive psychologist at UCLA, shows how struggling during the learning process can actually enhance long-term retention and acquisition. Rather than showing dead ends, these moments of struggle can really show that deeper learning is taking place. By working on something that doesn’t come easily, we are more fully involved and build our cognitive resources stronger. neural Pathways and deeper conceptual understanding. This kind of effort is what Bjork calls “desirable difficulties.” It feels uncomfortable in the short term, but it leads to something better, so it’s “desired” Memorygreater adaptability, and more robust acquisition in the long run.
My own story shows this. When I began my teaching position in 2007, 95 of my first 100 grant applications were denied. I felt that each and every one was absolutely crushed! Forget to spread the ketchup. It felt like I was personally responsible for the global seasoning catastrophe! This promoted the illusion of failure. However, revisiting reviewers’ critiques became an act of reconstruction. The harsh feedback revealed how to write stronger suggestions. The classic “desired difficulty” but I couldn’t see it! Under the repeated surface of “no”, significant hidden advances have occurred. Resilience And my skills have grown.
Ultimately, the permanence paid off when that hidden progress became visible. These ~2.5 years of rejection, three major grants arrived, avoiding a lab shutdown and allowing the lab to triple the size. Remembering this pattern builds trust between current challenges. Where did you see this hidden pattern of progress in your life?
Starting something new can reveal weaknesses that we didn’t realize we had. Consider these examples.
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We apply these steps to focus on intentional practice to get the best results when we face challenges that are slow or messy progress.
1. Choose a view: confusion, assemble the beliefs of fuel.
2. Check the paper towel and grab some momentum.
3. Expand your victory: Lock positive thinking.
Carl John once said, “In all confusion, in all obstacles there is a secret order.” What appears to be confusion is often only part of the process, consciously shifting our perspective to see the hidden progress within it, each effort turns into lasting progress. By dodging it, you miss out on insights and growth that will make you worse and promote real transformation.
Remember whether you’re sweeping ketchup or navigating new challenges. Every step, no matter how chaotic it is, takes a step forward. You are actively choosing not only to clean up the leak, but to perceive the order that comes out of the mess.